原标题：年轻人必看的三段讲演：这些人生主张，越早知道越好
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青年时期是咱们终身中最夸姣也是最要害的时期，它决议了咱们未来会成为什么样的人，是咱们未来全部光亮和夸姣的初步。唯美特别摘选了一些合适年轻人的讲演，愿这些言语能给咱们带去启迪和鼓动。
TED：20多岁决议你未来的人生
20-30岁是人生的要害期，你走的每一步，做出的每一个决议，都会影响你今后的人生。
心思咨询师 Meg Jay经过你自己多年的阅历，给处在这个重要时期的年轻人一些中肯的主张：过好20多岁的日子，为将来做准备。
在20-30岁这个阶段，很多人会发生身份危机，不知该怎么定位自己，Meg Jay主张咱们咱们与其纠结于此，不如做些实践的作业去添加自身价值百科，使用那些看起来比较远的联系拓宽自己的人脉，仔细考虑和挑选自己将来的新家庭。
❶ To forget about having an identity crisis an identity crisis and get some identity capital .
遗忘身份危机，取得一些身份本钱。
By get identity capital, I mean do something that adds value to who you are.
做些能添加你自身价值百科的事。
❷ The urban tribe is overrated.
不要局限于你的中心小圈子。
urban tribe：住在大城市的年轻人组成的小圈子。
New piece of capital, new person to date almost always comes from outside the inner circle. New things come from what are called our weak ties.
新的本钱，新的约会目标大都来自圈外。新事物正是来自所谓的弱联系里。
❸ The time to start picking your familyis now.
现在是时分挑选你自己的家庭了。
The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one, and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work.
考虑婚姻问题的最佳时刻是开端婚姻前，这在某种程度上预示着像挑选作业那样有意识地挑选爱情。
30 is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You're deciding your life right now.
30岁并非新20岁，所以要认清成人期，取得一些身份本钱，使用弱联系，挑选自己的家庭。不要被你不知道的，没做过的作业界说人生，你要自己去决议。
J·K·罗琳2008哈佛结业讲演
在很多人眼中，罗琳是成功人士的代表。可是在这篇讲演里，罗琳女士与哈佛的结业生们畅谈了自己年轻时所阅历的困苦。
她从前饱受失利的味道，但正是这些失利，让她重获重生。她从自身的阅历动身，告知咱们要坚持愿望，不要惧怕失利。
跟很多人相同，罗琳也曾在自己的抱负和爸爸妈妈对她的期望之间挣扎。
❶ They had hoped that I would take a vocational degree; I wanted to study English Literature.
他们期望我去拿个工作学位，而我想去攻读英国文学。
可是，罗琳也教训年轻人，咱们不应该因而责怪爸爸妈妈。
❷ I do not blame my parents for their point of view. There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you. What is more, I cannot criticise my parents for hoping that I would never experience poverty.
我不会由于爸爸妈妈的观念，而责怪他们。抱怨爸爸妈妈给你指错方向是有一个时刻段的。当你成长到能够操控自我方向的时分，你就要自己承当职责了。尤其是， 我不会由于爸爸妈妈期望我不要过穷日子，而责怪他们。
由于自己艺人的身份，波特曼在哈佛校园很不自傲。所以她成心选修了神经生物学和高级现代希伯来文学来证明自己的严厉和才智。可是她发现了自己并不高兴。
❶ I realized that seriousness for seriousness’s sake was its own kind of trophy, and a dubious one, a pose I sought to counter some half-imagined argument about who I was.
我发现， 为了严厉而严厉，这自身便是一种虚荣，是一种不置可否，是为了抵挡我幻想出的自我而采纳的一种姿势。
相反，只要过程中的高兴，才能让自己真实得到享用。
❷ And the joy and work ethic and virtuosity we bring to the particular can impart a singular type of enjoyment to those we give to and of course, ourselves.
做某事时的高兴、敬业和登峰造极，能够给咱们服务的目标带来一种特定的享用，当然也让咱们自己得到享用。
她说，年轻人要捉住自己的“盲目”自傲甩手去搏，由于过了这个时期，咱们可能会过分清醒，变得畏手畏脚。
❸ Make use of the fact that you don't doubt yourself too much right now. As we get older, we get more realistic, and that includes about our own abilities — or lack thereof. And that realism does us no favors.
要好好使用你现在不是那么置疑自己这件事，跟着年纪增加，咱们变得更实际，这包含对咱们自己才能和缺点的认知，而这种实际对咱们没有优点。
不要惧怕自己的无知和没有阅历，这些都是你绝无仅有的财富。
❹ Your inexperience is an asset, and will allow you to think in original and unconventional way. Accept your lack of knowledge and use it as your asset.
你的无阅历是种财富，能让你有原创和跳出惯例的点子。承受你常识上的匮乏，把它当成财富来用。
波特曼也提示咱们，要重视别人，要捉住身边夸姣的人和事。
❺ Getting out of your own concerns and caring about some else’s life for a while, remind you that you are not the central of the universe.
跳出你自己的事，偶然关怀一下别人的日子，这会提示你，你不是世界的中心。
❻ Grab the good people around you. Don't let them go. The biggest asset this school offers you is a group of peers that will be both your family and your school for life.
抓住你身边的好人，别让他们跑掉，这所校园能给你们的最大财富，便是一群将来会成为你一辈子的家人，也是良师益友的同学。
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